Confusing loop

The same question keeps returning.

Repeat · Notice · Decide

The same question keeps returning.

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What this archetype looks like

Your answers describe closeness followed by distance or promises that leave the same uncertainty behind. This names a pattern you report, not their motives; notice what the repetition costs you.

Strengths

You are spotting repetition
You can name what you need

Watch-outs

Taking each warm message as a fresh promise
Doing all the work to restart contact

What to do with this

Name one boundary for your time or energy, and notice whether actions become more consistent.