Harmoniser

Walking doormat

Yield · Apologise · Resent

You apologise for things that weren't your fault. Then resent it for years.

What this archetype looks like

Your dominant conflict style is Accommodating. You'll concede a point, downplay your preferences and put others' needs first to keep the relationship intact. This is generous — and very effective when the relationship matters more than the issue. The risk: chronic self-suppression and others not realising what you actually wanted.

Strengths

Building goodwill
Calming volatile situations
Generosity in disagreement

Watch-outs

Suppressed needs
Resentment if it becomes a pattern

What to do with this

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