Lighthouse Mom

Allergic to drama

Steady · Calm · Unfixing

Your kid is melting down and you're at 'interesting, tell me more'.

What this archetype looks like

You are steady. You do not rush to fix every hard moment, but you stay present while your kids move through it. The good part is calm and trust. The hard part is that your kids may copy your self-control so well that they forget to ask for help. What helps is showing them that capable people ask for help too, including you.

Strengths

Regulation system for the house
Trusts the long arc

Watch-outs

Kids may not ask for help
Calm read as cool

What to do with this

Try the Stress Response test
Try the Attachment Style test

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