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Archetype · What Kind of Dad

Coach Dad

Halftime-talk dad

Technique · Debrief · Drive

They strike out and you've already got the post-game tape in your head.

What this archetype looks like

You want your child to become capable. You teach, correct, debrief and push for growth. The good part is that your child learns how to improve instead of just hoping. The hard part is what happens after failure. Before the lesson, they need to know they are loved either way. What helps is adding warmth before feedback: “I love you. Now let’s look at what happened.”

Strengths

  • Real skill, real grit
  • Models how to improve

Watch-outs

  • "I did badly" merges with "I am bad"
  • Comfort needs an invitation

What to do with this

  • Try the Growth Mindset test
  • Try the Locus of Control test

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