"I Want The Wrong Amount"

Is-this-normal mode

Anxious · Editing · Off-curve

You've typed "average sex per week" into a private tab. We've all done it.

What this archetype looks like

You worry that your desire is too much or too little. The good part is that you are considerate and willing to talk. The hard part is that a partner cannot understand your rhythm if you keep hiding it. What helps is naming what is true for you without apologizing for being outside some imagined normal.

Strengths

Low entitlement
Easy to negotiate with

Watch-outs

Partner can't calibrate
Edited signal hides what you actually want

What to do with this

Try the Sex Drive Type test
Try the Sexual Love Language test

Curious if this is you?

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