"I Have To Perform"

Director-mode-on

Watching · Faking · Reviewing

You're directing the scene from outside your body. Reviews stress you.

What this archetype looks like

You can end up watching yourself instead of being present. The good part is that you pay attention to your partner. The hard part is that trying to look right can replace real pleasure, and faking can become a habit. What helps is slowing down and checking what you actually feel before trying to look right.

Strengths

Real attention to partner
Self-aware

Watch-outs

Not actually in the room
Faking becomes a habit

What to do with this

Try the Bed Archetype test
Try the Self-Esteem test

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