"My Body Is Wrong"

Lights-off comfort

Editing · Comparing · Bracing

You're mentally photoshopping yourself in real time. They notice nothing.

What this archetype looks like

You have made your body the reason you hold back. The good part is that you notice how you feel and you care about the experience. The hard part is that your partner never gets the relaxed version of you, and your body becomes something to manage instead of live in. What helps is choosing one moment where you stop editing and let yourself be present.

Strengths

Real self-awareness
High consideration

Watch-outs

Partner never gets un-edited you
Body treated as enemy

What to do with this

Try the Self-Esteem test
Try the Sexual Love Language test

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