Archetype · In Bed

The Intense

Eye-contact maxer

Deep · Burning · Fixed

You don't do casual. The lights go off in your head and the room disappears.

What this archetype looks like

When you are really present with someone, you want to go deep. Casual, distracted or half-present moments may not interest you much. The good part is that intimacy with you can feel memorable and fully alive. The hard part is that you need a partner who can meet that focus. Not everyone can. You do not need to apologise for wanting depth, but you do need to be honest about it early.

Strengths

Real depth
Full presence

Watch-outs

Casual moments under-pitched
Hard for distractible partners

What to do with this

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