TEST-YO!· How You LoveECR-S · Wei et al. 2007
How Do You Actually Love?
How you love. How you fear. 12 questions explain a lot.
- 5 min
- 12 questions
- Sans inscription
- Gratuit
Résultat complet à la fin — aucun e-mail requis
Résultats possibles · lequel es-tu ?
- Secure
- Anxious
- Avoidant
- Fearful-Avoidant
Réponse rapide
How you love. How you fear. 12 questions explain a lot.
- 12 questions · ~5 min
- Cadre: Adult attachment styles
- Fondé sur: Wei, M., Russell, D. W., Mallinckrodt, B., & Vogel, D. L. (2007)
- Coût: gratuit · sans inscription
À propos de ce test
How you love is also how you fear. 12 honest statements about closeness and trust, plotted on the two dimensions that explain almost everything that goes right (and wrong) in your relationships — and the patterns you keep replaying.
Méthodologie
Wei, M., Russell, D. W., Mallinckrodt, B., & Vogel, D. L. (2007). The Experiences in Close Relationships Scale (ECR)-Short Form: Reliability, validity, and factor structure. Journal of Personality Assessment, 88(2), 187–204.
Archétypes possibles
- Secure · Texts back, normal
- You ask for what you need, in words. Out loud. Disgusting.
- Anxious · 'K.' sends me spiral
- They take 12 minutes to reply and you've already drafted the breakup.
- Avoidant · Allergic to L-word
- Things got good, so naturally you started replying every 3 days.
- Fearful-Avoidant · Come-here-go-away
- You initiate at 11pm, panic at 9am, disappear by lunch.
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Sources et références
- Wei, M., Russell, D. W., Mallinckrodt, B., & Vogel, D. L. (2007). The Experiences in Close Relationships scale — Short form (ECR-S). Journal of Personality Assessment.
FAQ + avertissement
Can my attachment style change?
Yes. Attachment is a pattern, not a trait. Therapy, long-term secure relationships, and self-work all meaningfully shift it.
How long does it take?
About 5 minutes — 12 Likert items.
Which style is “best”?
Secure tends to predict the smoothest relationships, but all four styles are normal human adaptations and all four can grow.