Relationship Warning Sign Test — What pattern do you bring?

You notice THEIR warning signs. But what about yours?

3 min
16 questions
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Possible results · which one are you?

Green Flag
Avoider
Controller
Inconsistent

Quick answer

You notice THEIR warning signs. But what about yours?

16 questions · ~3 min
Cost: free · no signup

About this test

A 16-item self-report quiz that turns the popular warning-sign question inward: what difficult relationship pattern do you bring? It maps you to one of four patterns — Green Flag, Avoider, Controller or Inconsistent — based on transparency, conflict habits and consistency. The point is not to label you bad. It is to name one pattern that may cost more than you realise.

Methodology

16 self-report items (4 per pattern) on a 5-point Likert scale. The four patterns synthesise common relationship-difficulty patterns. Pop-psychology framing, not a clinical instrument.

Possible archetypes

Green Flag · Walking green flag: You apologize without a 'but', you stay calm in fights. Their mom approves.
Avoider · Conflict-allergic: They start the hard talk and you become a hologram. Iconic, deeply concerning.
Controller · Phone-checker mode: You've checked their phone. You know it. We know it. Their friends know it.
Inconsistent · Breadcrumbs+whiplash: Monday: 'soulmate'. Wednesday: 'k'. Friday: 'I miss you'. They have whiplash.