Anxious

'K.' sends me spiral

Devoted · Watching · Spiraling

They take 12 minutes to reply and you've already drafted the breakup.

What this archetype looks like

High anxiety, low avoidance. You value closeness and invest in it — and your system runs a background process scanning for signs of rejection. When a partner can hold steady and reassure, you regulate beautifully; when they pull back, the alarm gets loud fast.

Strengths

Emotional attunement
Investment in connection
Repair-seeking

Watch-outs

Protest behavior under stress
Reading ambiguity as rejection
Self-abandoning to keep the peace

What to do with this

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