Confusing loop

So kann sich dieser Typ zeigen

Your answers describe closeness followed by distance or promises that leave the same uncertainty behind. This names a pattern you report, not their motives; notice what the repetition costs you.

Stärken

• You are spotting repetition
• You can name what you need

Darauf kannst du achten

• Taking each warm message as a fresh promise
• Doing all the work to restart contact

Was du damit anfangen kannst

• Name one boundary for your time or energy, and notice whether actions become more consistent.