Avoider

Conflict-allergic

Silent · Vanishing · Stonewalling

They start the hard talk and you become a hologram. Iconic, deeply concerning.

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So kann sich dieser Typ zeigen

Your main warning sign is Avoiding. When conversations get heavy you go quiet, let weeks pass and try to escape the discomfort. The good part is that you stay calm under pressure. The hard part is that your partner can feel alone in the hardest moments. What helps is not becoming a different person; it is saying one honest sentence early.

Stärken

Calm under pressure
Slow to anger
Non-confrontational

Darauf kannst du achten

Partners feel alone in hard moments
Resentment builds in silence
Ghosting reads as not caring

Was du damit anfangen kannst

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