"Good Parents Don't…"

Look-perfect mode

Edited · Watched · Curated

You parent one way at home and another at the playground. The kid clocks both.

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So kann sich dieser Typ zeigen

You can start parenting for the people watching. The good part is that you want to do it well. The hard part is that editing yourself in public can pull you away from what your child needs in the moment. What helps is asking, "Would I do this the same way if nobody was watching?"

Stärken

Real concern about doing it well
Strong outside standards

Darauf kannst du achten

Editing in public = less present in private
Kid feels both versions

Was du damit anfangen kannst

Try the People-Pleaser test
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