"I Have To Earn It"

Overfunctioning

Earning · Scoreboard · Exhausted

You give 110%, they tip 4%. And you wonder why you're tired.

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So kann sich dieser Typ zeigen

You feel you have to earn love by doing more. The good part is real generosity and care. The hard part is that you may not know how to be loved when you are tired, quiet or empty-handed. What helps is practicing being received without immediately paying it back.

Stärken

Real generosity
Reliably present

Darauf kannst du achten

Partner can't receive tired-you
Love merges with labour

Was du damit anfangen kannst

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