"They're Using Me"

So kann sich dieser Typ zeigen

You notice who gives, who takes and who only appears when they need something. The good part is that you are hard to exploit. The hard part is that even good friendships can start to feel like a ledger. What helps is naming real imbalance when it appears, without making every friendship prove itself all the time.

Stärken

• Real eye for one-sided dynamics
• Hard to exploit

Darauf kannst du achten

• Mutual friendships filtered through suspicion
• Friends feel watched

Was du damit anfangen kannst

• Try the Petty Score test
• Try the Conflict Style test