Soft Dad

Crying-in-public dad

Tender · Verbal · Brave

You say "I love you" first and cry at the school play on purpose. They notice.

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So kann sich dieser Typ zeigen

You are trying to parent with affection, honesty and emotional openness. The good part is that your kids get a model of fatherhood that is warm and human. The hard part is that doing it differently can bring up grief about what you did not receive. That grief is real. What helps is caring for it directly, instead of letting it turn into resentment. You can be a softer dad and still need support yourself.

Stärken

Models emotional honesty
Breaks generational pattern

Darauf kannst du achten

Quiet grief about your own dad
Pace your partner has to match

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